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Therapy for Infidelity
Cheating, whether is emotional infidelity or physical betrayal, goes outside the boundaries of a normal relationship, hurt the other partner’s feelings, and damages the relationship. Surviving infidelity could be very challenging and fear of infidelity is often an avoidable issue if your partner cheated on you before, or s/he cheated on the ex and started the relationship with you, you witnessed your parent cheating and have difficulty trusting your partner?
If any of these happened to you, you could suffer from tremendous anxiety and even get paranoid. Watch the following signs for fear of infidelity:
Are you worried your partner will cheat on you?
Do you feel the need to “control” or “monitor” your partner?
Do you feel the urge to track your partner’s emails, phone calls and text messages?
Has the deception hurt or damage your relationship?
Are you having trust issues and a deep sense of insecurity?
Are you feeling the pain anticipating your partner to lie, cheat, and betray you any time soon?
Seek therapy from Dr. June to overcome the fear of infidelity. Dr. June will help you to face your feelings and your fears, alleviate the pain and distress, and rebuild the trust for a better relationship.
Therapy for Intimacy
Intimacy is not just about sex, it is the needs or desire to let others get close to you or connect with others emotionally, physically, and intellectually. That is, emotionally, you can share with your partner your innermost thoughts and vulnerability; physically, you are able to be affectionate with each other, including everything from hugging to holding hands to kissing to cuddling to sex; and intellectually, you like to exchange ideas and thoughts about what care about.
People with fear of intimacy are anxious about or afraid of intimate relationships. They may believe that they do not deserve love or support from others, they may have fear of revealing deep feelings, uncomfortable discussing relationship issues, fear of a committed long-term relationship; they may feel uneasy showing affection to a partner, some may avoid physical intimacy particularly physical touch and sex, some may fear close emotional connection with others. Fear of intimacy could be based on social anxiety, attachment issues, fear of abandonment, fear of engulfment, or complicated past events. It could damage your relationship and lead to depression and anxiety.
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Therapy for Communication
Good communication is the foundation of a strong relationship, and yet communication problems could easily turn a relationship downhill and cause more stress. Common communication mistakes usually include
Raise your voice and yell at your partner. This emotional communication style clearly shows your anger towards your partner and could easily lead to resentment from your partner;
Play blaming game with constant criticism using words like “never”, “always”, “should”, “again”…
You have to win or have to be right all the time in any discussions with your partner
Avoid conflicts with lack of communication or cold wars
Use passive-aggressiveness to manipulate or control your partner
You focus on yourself and do not show your appreciation to your partner
You do not actually listen to your partner
Psychotherapy with Dr. June can help you to raise awareness of your communication mistakes, learn good communication skills to improve your relationship.
Therapy for Boundary Setting
All healthy relationships have boundaries. Setting boundary could be as small as saying “No” to a birthday party invitation; could be as big as your insistence on being respected for your own decisions. When you make it clear to your partner about who you are, what you want, your beliefs, your limits Cancel timeshare geek, and your partner respects them, both partners could feel comfortable and develop positive self-esteem in a relationship.
However, Some people may feel guilty when they set boundaries because it is “selfish” to prioritize their own needs over someone else’s needs. Some other people may feel they are rejecting others in their moment of need because they interpret boundaries as disconnecting, disrespectful, and unloving.
Setting and establishing healthy boundaries is a skill. It is not easy and takes time to grasp the skill. Some people may have difficulty communicating their thoughts and feelings, and others may find it is too much to follow through what they say. Seek therapy from Dr. June to understand your personal reasons to set boundaries, know your limits, and set clear and healthy boundaries.
Therapy for Relationship – Codependency
Codependency is also known as “relationship addiction” because codependent people often form or maintain relationships that are one-sided, emotionally destructive and / or abusive. The emotional and behavioral condition of codependency affects an individual’s ability to have a healthy and mutually satisfying relationship.
Some signs indicate that you may be in a codependent relationship, if you
- Expend all of your energy or give up on yourself to take care of or meet your partner’s needs;
- Feel you are not good enough, you are unloveable or inadequate;
- Go out of your way to sacrifice yourself to accommodate your partner, or people-pleasing behaviors;
- Feel responsible for other people’s feelings and problems or blame yourself on someone else;
- Feel the need to control your partner because you need him/her to behave in a certain way;
- Because of fear and anxiety, tend to spend too much time thinking about your partner or your relationship;
- Worry that you would upset your partner and pretend you are ok with something when actually you are not;
- Feel trapped in your relationship.
Codependency is closely related to anxiety and tremendous fear of losing a relationship, but it is also reversible. Through therapy with Dr. June, you can learn skills to overcome your codependency. You do not have to be responsible to be your partner’s happiness, but you can learn to be more responsible for your own happiness.